Wednesday, June 5, 2013

date 4 - kosher punk

His profile is very very long.
His messages are too.
We set to meet during the day.
I emerge from my martial arts class in a black dress. My colleagues look at me and one asks where I am going to. I say to meet a friend. He asks, looking like that? that is a special kind of friend. I laugh it off.
As I walk I realize that the dress I picked is a little see thru, and the underwear I am wearing is red so you can actually see it thru the thin material. Who cares. It is a very hot day anyhow.
I was running late. I stopped for an ice-cream. "I am running late. I needed ice-cream" I texted him. 
We met in the south-west corner of Madison Park. He had a bike and a very thin black tie. I had an ice-cream.
We went towards the grass. We sat. We talked.
He talks, a lot. I am a great listener, especially on first dates.
He is a Punk, a Jewish Punk who keeps Kosher. He used to keep other things too, but not anymore. He has tattoos all over his arms. He found it very enticing that I had mentioned "The human centipede" in one of our e-mails.
He had been married and was separated for two years but not divorced because his ex-wife is very sick. His father is dying. He works with unions. He is a dominant. He has a masters in sociology. He has dated seven different women since he separated. One of them was so submissive as to say that if he didn't bruise her she wouldn't be happy. He doesn't believe in condoms, not for pleasure's sake, but because of some intimacy something. He has a sister who is childless. He hopes she doesn't conceive because their genes are messed up. 
We talked about horror movies and his passion for camping out in the middle of winter. Anal beads and Minnesota  He liked my dress and thought the age difference would be a problem (as he is in his mid forties). He was very happy to realize I was very mature, as he put it. He kept moving towards me, slowly, in the grass, while I leaned back. It was highly entertaining, if you paid attention. He is thinking of going back to school, maybe.
He kept saying how he is looking for a long term relationship and the things that would be an issue between the two of us and the things that wouldn't. He kept repeating how all the girls he had dated since he separated wanted to keep him and he had cut it short. I told him I was a goddess in bed. WHich is true. He later commented how amazed he was by my statement and how true it rang. 

He has offered me a punk tour of NY, I might take him up on that. Soon. 

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