It amazes you the messages you get from individuals you have no interest in... Some are boring, some are ugly, some are dumb and others are just plain blunt... Asking to be part of a polyamorous whatever (of that, probably later) or to be their sexual slave, et al.
those messages remain unanswered...
Then, why am I so aware of those messages I send with an empty inbox as a response? Is it because I consider myself a catch? Because anyone whom I approach should feel attracted to me by the personae i portray on my profile? "They should feel utterly lucky you wrote your two letter approach: hi. They should feel honored and try to woo you immediately, my alter ego murmurs..."
Why? Aren't those men also allowed to say no?
Why can rejection (from a person who only exists on your screen), in its passive silent mode, be so uncomfortable?
(A man who is so pompous I actually find sexy finally responded today. He said I have written to him three times. If he were interested he would have responded from the start. He only wants 26' waists. I don't tell him but mine is an inch wider than that... Not a deal breaker inch.
I access another man's profile. He sounds interesting. He is cute. A musician. I want to write him. I realize I already have. A few weeks ago I asked him about his music. A few weeks in online dating time is months.
He never replied. )
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